Chastity In Marriage

A Prayer


Father, by Your will to create mankind in
Your image and likeness, we obtain our
dignity. You treat us with this dignity
and entrust us with the responsibility to
treat one another likewise. Help me to
do so!

Father, of the gifts You have given me,
one of the most precious is my spouse,
a most precious gift for which You
entrust me to exercise responsibility, to
nurture, and to treat with the utmost
respect and dignity. Help me to do so!

Father, in marriage I have vowed with my
spouse to join intimately in cooperation
with You as You create life. Please help
me to fulfill my vow in a way worthy of
Your blessing.

What way shall this be?

The way must be worthy of working with
You, Father. It must be done with
dignity. That is, it must be fulfilled with
purity of heart, love, respect, gentleness,
and self-giving. Yes Father, this is the
definition of chastity in my marriage.

Chastity leaves no room for selfish,
subhuman, excessive desires for sexual
pleasure. Father, You have given me
and my spouse sexual pleasure to show
love for each other through self-giving. At
the same time it is our privilege and
responsibility, as we join together, to
cooperate with You as You create a
human being. Thank You, Father.

Father, help me and my spouse fulfill our
vows to You with chastity in our
marriage.

By John Maciejewski
(Our Lady of La Salette Catholic Church
in Canton, GA)